Relationships
“Also, our inventories usually include material on relationships.”
Basic Text, p. 29
What an understatement that is! Especially in later recovery, entire inventories may
focus on our relationships with others. Our lives have been filled with relationships
with lovers, friends, parents, co-workers, children, and others with whom we come in
contact. A look at these associations can tell us much about our essential character.
Often our inventories catalog the resentments that arise from our day-to-day
interactions with others. We strive to look at our part in these frictions. Are we
placing unrealistic expectations on other people? Do we impose our standards on
others? Are we sometimes downright intolerant?
Often just the writing of our inventory will release some of the pressure that a
troubled relationship can produce. But we must also share this inventory with
another human being. That way, we get some needed perspective on our part in the
problem and how we can work toward a solution.
The inventory is a tool that allows us to begin healing our relationships. We learn
that today, with the help of an inventory, we can start to enjoy our relationships with
others.
Just for today: I will inventory the part I play in my relationships. I will seek to play
a richer, more responsible part in those relationships.