More powerful than words
“We learn that a simple, loving hug can make all the difference in the world”
Basic Text p.88
Perhaps there have been times in our recovery when we were close to someone who
was in great pain. We struggled with the question, “What can I do to make them feel
better?” We felt anxious and inadequate to relieve their suffering. We wished we had
more experience to share. We didn’t know what to say.
But sometimes life deals wounds that can’t be eased by even the most heartfelt
words. Words can never express all we mean when our deepest feelings of
compassion are involved. Language is inadequate to reach a wounded soul, as only
the touch of a loving Higher Power can heal an injury to the spirit.
When those we love are grieving, simply being present is perhaps the most
compassionate contribution we can offer. We can rest assured that a loving Higher
Power is working hard at healing the spirit; our only responsibility is to be there. Our
presence, a loving hug, and a sympathetic ear will surely express the depth of our
feelings, and do more to reach the heart of a human being in pain than mere words
ever could.
Just for today: I will offer my presence, a hug, and a sympathetic ear to someone I
love.